The Value Race
Two different entrepreneurs, faith based, and full of big energy, come together to bring you a weekly self-development podcast with incredible guests, and inspirational stories. They do have one thing in common, adding massive value into the world! Chesco (from suicidal to success) & Kyle (from prison to purpose) are extremely passionate about encouraging others by sharing their journey to become better versions of themselves in real time. Join these powerful transparent conversations as they help you become more grateful, faithful, and build the confidence to take action, so you can build the life you were destined to have. This is the value race, and the one who adds the most value wins.
The Value Race
Setting the Temperature | Ep 137
Kyle returns from a Warriors for Christ fly-in event with a raw and
vulnerable reflection on personal accountability and leadership. After
bringing his wife to spend the weekend with his brotherhood in Allentown,
Pennsylvania, Kyle confronts a hard truth: he was disappointed in
himself—not because the event failed, but because he realized he wasn't
living up to the standard he knew he should set.
In this deeply personal episode, Kyle unpacks the danger of predisposed
expectations, the importance of "setting the temperature" in your
relationships, and why your natural behavior should reflect your values
every single day—not just in special moments. He challenges listeners with
a powerful question: If you're disappointed in your life, is it because
you're setting unrealistic expectations on others, or because you're not
living up to the standard you know you should have for yourself?
Drawing from experiences serving the homeless, witnessing God move through
his brotherhood, and examining his own internal dialogue, Kyle reveals
why consistency in character matters more than occasional peak
performance. This is an episode about raising your own bar, being the
thermostat (not the thermometer) in your environment, and living
congruently with the person you aspire to be.
Key Takeaways:
- Why predisposed expectations create unnecessary pain and disappointment
- The leadership principle of "setting the temperature" in your home and
relationships
- How to identify if your disappointment stems from you or unrealistic
expectations of others
- Why your natural behavior should align with your highest values—not just
on special occasions
- The power of being open to receiving insight and recognizing God's
movement in every room